You're looking at the wrong things. None of the things you've pointed out is wrong - no one dislikes her because she is self made, married a member of the royal family, had her social status improved since marrying, etc. The dislike comes from the things said and done in between, particularly since Brexit... and it's gotten worse since moving to the US. Specifically... making a big to-do about wanting a quiet life yet stirring up constant press, speaking engagements, etc. Not to mention the nauseating hypocrisy of constantly harping on about equality, sustainability, etc. while going of their way to keep their titles and continue making money off their privilege as royals. It's like the Kardashians meets Mother Theresa... oh brother!I think it’s strange that people hate MM. what exactly has she done to make you people hate her so much? It doesn’t make sense. Meg is self made and from a young age, she’s been speaking out about social issues and was heavily involved with the UN.
if you had the opportunity to marry a member of the royal family I’m sure you would so why all the hate? Besides, I don’t know them personally but it looks like they are very much in love. Harry is a handsome man, why is it impossible to believe she genuinely loves him?
On the other hand, Kate is praised even though you could argue her getting with William (who has cheated on her multiple times) was out of raising her social status too.
Honestly if MM looked like Kate, I’m sure the GP would love her....